Grains of Sand

To see a World in a Grain of Sand
And a Heaven in a Wild Flower
Hold Infinity in the palm of your hand
And Eternity in an hour…
William Blake

I.

“Perfect,”
she thought and,
swift as her thought,
she wadded up the bit of paper and
shot it across the table at her brother.
“That’s enough,”
warned their mother,
even as her brother
was wadding up his napkin.

II.

“Maybe”
She turned the piece of wood over in her hands,
considering.
But no.
It really wasn’t good for anything
but burning.
As she threw it onto the pile,
she thought of the bonfire that she would make
some autumn evening.

III.

“Useless”
She scrunched up the remnant in both hands,
for the trash.
But her hands,
paying no attention to her thoughts,
began to fold it.
Sighing,
she opened the old trunk,
already stuffed,
and added the remnant.
“As soon as I throw it away,
I will want it.
And it is so pretty.
Maybe someday it will be
a dress for a grandchild’s doll.”

IV.

“Incredible”
She laughed,
“It’s almost 10:00 and we’re still in bed.
I like being retired.
We’re like teenagers.
Now what would teenagers be doing in bed together?”
Much love and laughter and tenderness later,
“People probably look at us and say,
‘Oh, too bad they met so late in life.
They will have so little time together.’
But I feel like our time is wide and deep,
now and enough.”

V.

“???”
The thought came and slipped away.
A birthday party.
Where was her mother?
Someone asked her,
“Who was your best friend when you were a child?”
The form of the question confused her.
“My best friend is Ethel.”
Another question,
“Did Ethel live near you?”
Again,
she wondered at the form of the question,
“Ethel lives two doors down.”
Ah that thought again,
“I’m 92 today.”

Loving Your Enemies is Easy

OK, folks, maybe you better sit down because I’m about to disagree with Jesus. (Not that I’m full of myself or anything; after all, He’s just a human being like me — except for that part about Him also being God.)

Anyway, I was thinking of Jesus saying that it’s not good enough to love your friends, even the pagans do that, the real trick, the hard part, is to love your enemies.
 
But then I thought, actually, it’s pretty easy to love your enemies because you don’t expect them to love you back. So you can feel really good about yourself, you can really get into congratulating yourself, that you are following Jesus and loving your enemy, praying for your enemy, not wishing evil on your enemy.
 
The hard part is loving those whom you expect to love you, but they don’t. The hard part is to not keep questioning what you did wrong, what they did wrong, how can they treat you so badly, think of you so poorly. The hard part is to stop those thoughts, stop fantasies of rejecting them right back or rubbing in how much they hurt you. The hard part is to simply go on loving, to turn every thought about them into a prayer of love and thanksgiving for loving them.
 
So I decided to look up the exact verse (since I was pretty sure my version was my usual loose paraphrase). Matthew, in chapter 5 writes, “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be children of your Father in heaven.”
 
And Luke, in chapter 6, writes, “But I say to you that listen, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you.”
 
But I went back to Matthew, and there it was, just a couple of verses later in chapter 5: “For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax collectors do the same?”
 
It turns out I wasn’t disagreeing with Jesus, just with the narrow meaning of that word “enemies” — really He was talking about just what I am talking about: loving those who don’t love you back (even when you think they should).

Trinity

God “is at once infinite solitude (one nature) and perfect society (Three Persons).”
Thomas Merton

Trinity

Three in One
Father, Son, Holy Spirit

Trinity

One God
Three Persons

Trinity

Infinite solitude
Perfect society

 

Trinity

One word
to contain the inexhaustible

Trinity

One word
To surround the infinite

Trinity

One word
To approach the perfect

 

Maybe Love is a better Word